Friday, April 23, 2021

Minimalism and Money: 7 Minimalist Philosophies About Finances

Behind the coronavirus and the government, Gallup polls from March 2021 show that Americans consider economic issues (as a whole) the third most important problem today.

I don't have any solutions for how minimalism would help with COVID or politicians, 😏 so let's talk about minimalism and money! Here are the 7 minimalist philosophies on tap today, and how they relate to finances.

  1. Time is money
  2. Less is more
  3. Live an intentional life
  4. Be authentic
  5. Focus on what you love
  6. You can become rich by acquiring much or desiring little
  7. Live without envy

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1. Time is money

In his book The Psychology of Money: Timeless lessons on wealth, greed, and happiness, Morgan Housel says, "Controlling your time is the highest dividend money pays."


Bar chart showing the relationship between time and wealth


All of a person's time has value, and if you think about it, time can always be translated into a monetary value. Time is an opportunity to make money, keep it, spend it, or lose it. I want to be doing one of 3 things with my time:

  • Something that improves my health (relaxing, sleep, exercising, cooking healthy food, etc.). I've heard that you can pay for your health now by taking care of yourself, or later by paying medical bills. Since I'd much rather not spend my later years being sick, I spend money now to try to take care of myself.
  • Something fun, which may cost money, but would be an investment in my happiness. I have this as separate from improving my health because while having fun can be good for well-being, not all fun activities can be classified as healthy! 😉
  • Making money--a direct path between time and money that helps both my present and future.

Anything else is just wasted time in my opinion. So if something isn't some combination of enjoyable, lucrative, and health-improving, then I probably won't be doing it. I used to be one of those people who spent too much time trying to make other people happy. I try not to be that way anymore, even if that means I have to disappoint someone else to take care of myself and my priorities. As mentioned in our previous article on this blog, it's ok to put yourself first sometimes.


2. Less is more


This saying can apply to many parts of minimalism but in general, less is more means spending less money.

Even if you spend more money on fewer things, if they are higher quality and last longer, then you will save money in the long run.

Although buying cheaply can make you spend money more often, there are still fewer things to buy if you follow the "less is more" philosophy. So in the end, you should still spend less.


sign that says all you need is less


Less is more can save money when it doesn't apply to shopping, too. Here are a few examples off the top of my head:

  • Less junk food = more health = less money spent on health care
  • Less stress = more happiness = less money spent on stress eating, impulse buying, therapy/counseling, anti-stress aids, lost wages from sick days
  • Less busy = more money saved on activities and transportation
  • Less debt = more money in savings, larger retirement account, higher equity in property owned
  • Less mileage is driven = more money saved on repairs, maintenance, insurance, and fuel
I had more examples than I thought! 😆 


3. Live an intentional life


Have you ever heard that you shouldn't go grocery shopping when you're hungry? It's because you'll be more susceptible to impulse buys, getting junk food, or buying foods that end up spoiling before you use them. 

An intentional trip to the grocery store would involve eating a meal beforehand, checking what you already have in the refrigerator and pantry, planning out your meals, and writing a list. It might also involve strategizing the best store(s) to visit based on what you want to buy, and collecting coupons.

I love to plan, so this grocery shopping outline sounds great to me (and is one that I actually follow). But I know that not everyone does this. And if they don't do it for groceries, chances are they don't do it for other parts of their life either. Imagine applying that level of intentionality to every purchase decision you make. Does that sound horrible?

No judgment if it does. The fact is that examining your life at this level can hurt, especially if you're not used to it. Nobody wants to think about how what they spend might mess with their life. And that's something you have to face when you practice intentional spending.

On the upside, getting into the habit of being more intentional becomes easier over time. It won't always be as upsetting or stressful to examine your spending, because you'll change things as you go. There will be less to get upset about. People are also adaptable, and get used to change if they're consistent with it.


4. Be authentic


It seems like what's been popular online for a while now are "hauls." Grocery hauls, online shopping hauls, luxury good hauls, makeup hauls, thrift store hauls, etc. Here's what I see happening:

  • I think comparison culture has such a strong streak running through modern society that if one person does something and it's popular, then everyone wants to do it. So more and more people do their own shopping hauls.
  • Viewers get inundated with these pictures, posts, and videos of the hauls, which are basically an advertisement to spend. They see things that they like and want to have them too.

What's wrong with that, you might ask? The question that comes to my mind is whether people are buying things because they actually like what they see, or if they just think they want to buy stuff because they see other people buying it. 

I've watched some of those videos and found myself wanting things that I didn't even know existed! How can you know whether you actually want or need something, if you didn't know it was an option before? Was your life empty and unfulfilled but you didn't know it until you saw this one thing and thought, "That is what I need to make me whole!"

Not everyone can live in a vacuum. But we can choose to set aside outside influences and find out who we are inside. Chances are, our authentic selves can be happy without buying what we saw in the latest shopping haul video.


5. Focus on what you love


You know that game "would you rather?" Someone asks you things like "cake or pie?" or "mountains or desert?" and you say which one you prefer. If you apply this game to your spending habits, then you start to see savings.

Buying things that you don't love is not only an ineffective use of your money, it's a way to make yourself unhappy. Imagine how much clutter you'll accumulate if you buy the sweater AND the jacket (but you don't really like the jacket).


sign on sidewalk that reads passion led us here


There's an element of self-esteem and self-love to this as well. You have to be willing to not settle and to hold out for what you truly love and deserve. Spending money on things you don't care about is the equivalent of going on a date with someone you don't really like, just because you don't want to be alone. Give yourself more respect than that. Wait for the "right" one--whether it's a person or a possession!

"Spending money on things you don't care about is the equivalent of going on a date with someone you don't really like, just because you don't want to be alone."  - Minimalist Life

 

6. You can become rich by acquiring much or desiring little


The actual quote is “There are two ways to be rich: One is by acquiring much, and the other is by desiring little.” by Jackie French Koller.

This is a great quote to put on your wall to help keep you on track with your spending choices. It's obvious how each of these can affect your finances, and which way is more minimalist. I don't think I need to explain any further.

However, perhaps what does need explanation is how you choose one path over the other. An inspirational saying is probably not enough. If you live in any first-world country, you're likely surrounded by capitalism and the encouragement to consume. There's really no escaping it if you want to engage with society at all. Plus, hardly anyone is self-sufficient anymore. Most of us have to buy everything we own because we don't know how to make it ourselves.

I'm still learning myself, but one thing I know for sure is that a drastic change is probably not a sustainable change. Even though I love organizing and decluttering, the thought of letting go of 90% of my stuff all at once is pretty scary. I think I would have to make a lot of lists to decide what to keep and what to get rid of. 😅

I think a good first step is to change what you acquire from now on. Again, do it slowly. Focus first on stuff that you care less about. Here's a simplistic example. You buy both apples and oranges every week but only eat the apples. Stop buying oranges; you're buying them because you think you should buy them. Or you think you need them, but you're not using them and just wasting money. So it's easy to cut this out of your spending. 

The harder choice is to cut down on the apples because you like them. If you feel like you're still acquiring too much, you can work on that next. But it's always going to be easier to start with the stuff you don't care about (or don't care about as much) to create habits within your brain. It will make working on the harder stuff more palatable.

7. Live without envy



Just like there is a ton of pressure to consume, comparison culture runs rampant these days. There's even an acronym (FOMO = fear of missing out) to describe how we feel when we compare and think we're not keeping up. And from a capitalist standpoint, a lot of what is envied has to do with money.

Yes, having more money can absolutely make life easier in many ways. But more money often comes with more expenses, more responsibility, and less free time. If you have trouble managing money at $30k per year, you will still have trouble managing money at $100k per year. I think the biggest problem many people experience as their salaries go up is lifestyle creep--you make more, so you start doing more unnecessary spending.

Unless we have access to financial records, we can't know exactly what's going on with someone else's income and spending. Trying to replicate it and thinking we'll get the same results is a recipe for frustration.

There are other things that people envy, like physical attractiveness, relationships, talent, and emotional enlightenment. I know from direct interactions with experts and influencers in these categories that their lives are not as perfect as they appear, either. They have just as many self-doubts, days of sadness, fights with their significant others, and bad hair days as the rest of us.

The things we see that make us envious of others are often a highlight reel and not an accurate reflection of what it's really like to be in their shoes.

Nobody lives 100% happy and satisfied all the time. It just isn't possible, no matter how things may seem to the outside world. I'm sure you don't enjoy the struggles you deal with in your life, but just remember that everyone has them. Their problems are just as real as yours are, even if they're well-hidden.




Thursday, April 8, 2021

How to create a neutral capsule wardrobe for spring 2021

Happy spring! In this post, I will talk about creating a capsule wardrobe for my favorite season. Here are some of the concepts we'll go over:

What is a capsule wardrobe?

How to design a capsule wardrobe

How do I choose what goes in the capsule?

What do I do with the rest of my clothes?

Do I need to shop for pieces for my capsule wardrobe?

How many items should I have in my collection?

What happens if I need something that isn't in the capsule wardrobe?

The benefits of using a capsule wardrobe

Details about my personal capsule wardrobe


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how to create a capsule wardrobe for spring 2021

I briefly mentioned capsule wardrobes in my last post, which was about how minimalism makes life easier. As promised, now you'll get the full scoop and lots of tips I found while learning how to build my own capsule.

What is a capsule wardrobe?


If you haven't heard of this term before, a capsule wardrobe is a downsized collection of clothing, shoes, and accessories that you can mix and match for versatile looks. Typically, the wardrobe is used for a season, and then all or part of it is switched out for the next season.

outfit of shoes, belt, watch, pants, shirt, sunglasses arranged on a white background

How to design a capsule wardrobe


There are lots of different opinions about how to create a capsule wardrobe. I read about a few of them and chose what I liked best to create my own capsule. Here are the guidelines I decided on:

  • Every piece has to be in good condition and expected to last through the season. They all have to fit, be comfortable, and be something I feel good about when I'm wearing.
  • The capsule has to be fewer items than I own that I would normally wear during that season. So if I have 50 items that I would normally wear during the spring, it's cheating to include all 50. Some of them have to be left out. Out of 50, I would probably say 40 or 45 would be my max for the capsule, but that's just a general idea, not a hard-and-fast rule.
  • Each item has to match up with at least 3 other pieces in the capsule. This is how I narrowed down what to include--so if I had a top that would only look good with one pair of pants, that stayed out of the capsule.
  • The collection does include outerwear, like jackets and sweaters, but doesn't include sleepwear, swimwear, and workout clothing. I'm not counting hair clips or hair elastics because I never use anything fancy. I'm also not including socks, because that just seems silly. All my socks are basic and are hidden by my shoes. But if I was including tights, I would have those as part of my capsule because they're more visible. Don't fault my logic--you do you. 
Some people do a "work outfits capsule" and a separate capsule for clothes they wear outside of work. If you have a job with a strict dress code that doesn't match your off-work attire at all, I guess that's a good idea. But that isn't really necessary for me right now, and probably not if I ever transition back into an office.

I used a few more tips, but I'll talk about those more later in the post.

How do I choose what goes in the capsule?


Once you have your rules ready, you want to start reviewing all the items in your closet. I would start with clothing and move on to shoes and accessories after.

I took out all my clothes (except for PJs, underwear, socks, and workout stuff) and put them on my bed. First, I put aside the stuff that I know I'm not going to be using in the spring, like my winter coat and snow boots (I hope, anyway!).

Next, I took out any items that I should have donated last spring--stuff that I just don't wear anymore because I don't like it or need repairs.

Once that's done, I had a much smaller pile of clothes. I separated them into dresses, tops, bottoms, and outerwear. This is where I brought out a notepad and a pen. I made a list of all the pieces. Then I put together outfits in my head. Each time a piece made it into an outfit, I put a checkmark next to each of them.

When I ran out of ideas, I looked at my list. For the clothing that didn't have 3 checkmarks next to it, I asked myself if there were any more outfit combinations I hadn't thought of. Or, if I even cared whether this stayed in the capsule or not. More clothes got eliminated this way.

Next, I went through the same process with my shoes, belts, bags, and jewelry.

What do I do with the rest of my clothes?


So you're not tempted to sneak more clothing into your capsule wardrobe, I recommend taking the rest of the items and putting them elsewhere. I do this anyway for my off-season items, so it was no different in that aspect. There was just more clothing to put away this time. You can put them in storage bins in another room, in a different closet, under your bed, or wherever. Just try not to leave them in the same place as your capsule wardrobe.

This is a good time to donate anything you don't want anymore, too!

Do I need to shop for pieces for my capsule wardrobe?


Of course, the fashion industry has caught on to this trend of creating capsule wardrobes. If it were up to them, you'd buy all brand-new clothes for each season's capsule! But since I'm not a trust fund kid, I used a lot of what was already in my closet.

However, I was going for an overall neutral look (I wanted to wear mostly black and gray), so I ended up buying a few things to fill in some gaps. I probably could have done without the new clothes, but I was still phasing out my shopping habit. Plus, I donated a lot of stuff, so in the end, I have fewer clothes than I did before.

If you usually buy a lot of pieces on impulse, you may want to plan ahead a month or so with your capsule wardrobe. What I mean by that is, if you typically buy something just because it's cute or on sale, but doesn't necessarily match with anything else you own, then you might not have the right clothes to mix and match into several outfits. If you want to give the capsule a try, you might have to buy more clothing at first to make it work.

This is probably against some minimalist rule, but in my opinion, a capsule wardrobe isn't necessarily about wearing fewer clothing pieces. It's about reserving your time and energy for other things that are more important than the precious minutes (or hours) you might spend trying to figure out what to wear. 

How many items should I have in my collection?


Steve Jobs had a capsule wardrobe to the extreme, where he wore the same thing every day: a black long-sleeved shirt, jeans, and sneakers. I believe he said he did it so he could better focus his creative energy.

Steve Jobs sitting in a chair looking at a tablet
Courtesy of www.businessinsider.com

Obviously, it isn't necessary to go to the extreme of having several sets of identical clothing. Most of us prefer more variety than that! We aren't all running multi-billion-dollar companies, either, so maybe we don't need as much brainpower focused on something other than clothes? 

Anyway, for us non-billionaires who just want to make getting ready slightly less complicated, how many items should be in a capsule wardrobe? I don't have a strict answer for you. Like I said, I ended up with fewer clothes than I would normally wear, but I didn't want to limit myself too much for my first try. I do see a lot of examples that have between 30 and 40 items, for your reference. I'll tell you how many pieces I have in an upcoming section of this post.

What happens if I need something that isn't in the capsule wardrobe?


Then add it in. Obviously. If you get invited to a black-tie event and you don't have any formal wear in your capsule, then take it out of storage, buy it, whatever. Then put it away again after the event.

However, if you realize that you made a mistake in your planning and left something important out, try to swap it out for something you're not using as much. But in the end, you have to do whatever you're most comfortable with. I doubt the fashion police are going to come to arrest you regardless. These are all just suggestions based on the decisions I made that worked well for me.

The benefits of using a capsule wardrobe


This spring is my first-ever capsule wardrobe, and I wanted to try it for a few weeks before I published this post. So far, the biggest change I noticed is how clean my closet seems. It's so empty! I didn't realize how cramped things were until I moved out everything except my capsule wardrobe.

It also definitely made things easier for me to choose an outfit. I feel like I can pick up just about any piece of clothing and match it with any other piece of clothing in this wardrobe. And yeah, everything is in neutrals, so why wouldn't it work together?

My time getting ready has been reduced down to how long it takes me to put the clothes on. Really fast. I love it!

My only complaint is that sometimes, I want a little pop of color, and I didn't allow for that. I thought about swapping stuff out, but I decided to wait. For the next season, I think I'll try to challenge myself some more with non-neutral colors.

Details about my personal capsule wardrobe

I thought about making one of those collages that other people have done with their capsule wardrobes, where they have all their pieces laid out in outfits or grouped by type, all in one picture.

But I have no idea how to do that, nor do I want to try to photograph all my pieces of clothing. So instead, I found shopping websites that have pictures of my clothes (or something close). If I found a website, then the clothing has a link. If not, I just described the clothing.

Here's my neutral spring 2021 capsule wardrobe!

Shoes: 👠

1. Skechers flats in black

Outerwear: 🧥

7. Gray zip-up hoodie
8. Crochet poncho

Tops: 👕

9. Black cotton tank top
10. White cotton tank top
12. Gray 3/4 sleeve knit top
13. Mossimo black sleeveless peplum top

Bottoms: 🩳

14. Gray leggings
15. Dark wash denim shorts
16. Dark wash jeans
17. Black Capri-length leggings
18. Fair Indigo black pencil skirt

Dresses: 👗

20. Black and white sundress (mine has straps)
21. Strapless knee-length sundress in black

Jewelry: 💎

23. silver ring with Om symbol 🕉
24. plain silver hoop earrings
28. vintage-y crystal and silver bracelet

Accessories 👛👒🕶

29. black cotton purse
30. shiny black purse
32. sun hat
33. sunglasses 

I laughed when I counted all of these up because there's a capsule wardrobe concept developed by minimalist Courtney Carver called Project 333 (pronounced "three thirty-three", which I think refers to 33 items every 3 months). She has a book, an online course, and a free challenge you can participate in. I found her blog posts about capsule wardrobes a good starting place to figure out what works for me.

I wasn't aiming for 33 items or any other number. I just followed the instructions I wrote above and that's how it turned out!

I'm definitely having fun with this though. I love organizing stuff, so even the planning part was fun for me. I'm looking forward to doing this again for the summer, at which point I'll update you on how the spring capsule worked for me and give you the details about my summer capsule!